"What would you like to drink?" A question I am often asked, I shall take it as a compliment that some people never even imagine I could have had a problem with alcohol. Almost 10 years ago I finally, after many attempts quit alcohol. After many years of problematic, dangerous alcoholism this was when my life started. It took a while as many people find, but my life and friends shifted shifted away from alcohol focused activities. Then another problem arose I just could not get enough of life, I always had plenty of interests but was unable to persue them. Removing alcohol meant I had freedom.
Bringing this back to the question I am asked, I will reply "Sparkling water, good coffee (decaff after 2pm), redbush tea". Some enquirers have thought I am being reserved, do not want to let my hair down. If you have ever known anyone with an alcohol problem, you will know the irony of the association and assumption.
I am aware many people enjoy a glass of wine, or beer but for me the answer is always water please - not least because I cannot stand the taste of J2O, schloer and other commonly thought of non-alcohol alternatives. Oh and no ice, thank you.
Recently I realised it is now 6 months since I took the decision to temporarily close my books to new clients, overwhelmed by enquiries I needed to focus on working out a balance and I also was in the midst of redesigning my website. Some of the balance was between online and in-person work, both I find very exciting and I wanted to find a way to make it all work for me - if it works for me it works for you. My books reopened at the beginning of April and recently I have reflected on the great experiences I am having meeting new clients, just as amazing as the clients who have carried on throughout - over many years some even a decade plus.
I know believe I have found that balance, I have a good sense of the days when I will work solely online, the days I will be out there for an Escort booking, and the time I will use to create photos, videos and update my profile. Having Covid-19 for the first time since the start of the pandemic threw a spanner in the works, but in true Ruth style I used this to show me the way. Being unable to go out or have direct contact with others, I could use the time to spend more time online catching up with cam and phone chat clients. It had taken me over 2 years to contract Covid, and I still see online work as a way to minimise my exposure - there are days when I do not have any outside contact. This also means I enjoy the days when I do literally drive into the sun and rain to for an Escort booking. I know I am someone who does not want to do the same thing over and over, even each booking be it in-person or online is different. Sometimes it's pure GFE, sometimes it's a Domme, BDSM or fetish scene. Then I pick up my lights, camera and create a video. I am using my mind and body creatively, and clients provide the stimulation.
Whether you are a new client, current client, long-term client I am always delighted to receive your booking request, or briefing just send me an email or phone me with your specific requirements and as I often explain "If I can make it I will".
Best regards and a big smile