Charging through November

Wow the month is just charging by at the moment.

I’ve been making arrangements for a couple of incalls days in December and now have definite dates. On 15th December I’ll be visiting the Windermere area and able to accept incalls on the afternoon and evening of the 15th, morning of the 16th. I’ll then be accepting incalls on the 17th and 18th of December, which due my training schedule and a few other things I fit in around my Escorting bookings, will be once again, late afternoon – early morning.

During this time I’m almost definitely not accepting any dinner dates, unless the chef serves plain fish and rice, because I’m coming towards the culmination of a 12 week challenge. Over Christmas I’ll be available for dinner dates again until mid January, which also allows me to enjoy a birthday meal or two. From mid February onwards my diet becomes very focussed once again and eating out will not be something I wish to do.

It may also be worth noting that I will not be contactable in any shape or form on the 4th, 5th and 6th of December, and that texts sent in that time may not be received, so if you are planning to get in touch, it would be best to avoid doing so on those dates.

Back to November, most things are going well for me, I have two courses on the go, one of which I’m waiting to hear back from regards progression and next steps. The other is a new qualification for me, which is proving to be very exciting.

It’s almost time to go training, so I’ll start to sign off.

If you would like to take the opportunity of booking an incall on one of the dates above, please get in touch with your preferred day and booking length, and I’ll let you know what times I can offer you.

All the best
Ruth x


Hi again

Recently I’ve had a few new enquiries asking why do I only provide outcalls, can I not be persuaded to accept some incalls. One person even asked me to explain exactly why do I not see anyone incall. The answer is that for me, outcalls are the best way for me to accept bookings and offer my services.

It’s as simple as that.

For many years I did offer incalls alongside outcalls and I would say that I have based my decision on sound judgement, and what works for me and my lifestyle.

My website and other adverts makes it clear what is on offer, and integrity is something very important to me. I have no idea why someone who hasn’t even met me would whinge, moan or push me in any other way. It’s not going to make me feel I could be comfortable making arrangements to be in a confined space naked with them. I’m also not sure why they don’t look for someone who can meet them in the way that they require.

On the other hand however each week I receive enquiries from prospective (and current) clients who understand how I operate, they are looking for the type of service and bookings I offer, so they send me a polite email and off we go making arrangements for a booking.

We meet, have a great time, both go away with smiles on each other’s faces. Everyone happy and that’s how I like it.

Best wishes
Ruth x


Yes wow is all I have to say. I’ve had some layers cut into my hair, which have brought out my natural curl and improved the condition of my trademark locks, all without any need for perms or heated appliances, or any significant expense. My hair is now permanently bouncy and curly, with a lot less frizz. It’s still very long at the back, but it now looks similar to when I have it professionally styled so I’m very very pleased.

I can predict that now I’ve written about this, I may get some emails asking ‘can I see what it looks like’, yes it’s more or less the same as in my photos here, but if you want something even more accurate then take a look at the photos labelled ’19th Sept’ in my public gallery, there’s also one taken from the front in the private gallery if you have a membership. The link to my adultwork profile is or if you are not very good at cut and pasting links, then just run a search for Cumbria, where my profile is listed as ‘Strawberryblonde’.

My September incall date is rapidly approaching, I do have a couple of hours on both days available if you’d like to visit me, and I’ll also be available for outcalls as usual.

At the moment I don’t advertise availability on most Sundays and Mondays. If however you contact me well in advance, it is possible to book me for the evening one of these days, especially if you are able to pay a deposit. If you are interested making a booking for a Sunday or Monday evening days please get in touch a couple of days in advance with your requirements. As always providing me with specific time, booking length and location really helps me work out what is or isn’t possible.

Thank you for your attentions, I’m looking forward to some fabulous bookings in the coming weeks!

Best wishes
Ruth x


This is a quick post to announce that I will be able to offer a couple of incall bookings in the Barrow-in-Furness area on 26th & 27th September. Times and appointments are limited. If you are flexible and think that you’d like to make a booking, please get in touch indicating the time(s), booking length and day you can manage.

I am also available for outcalls as usual on both those days.

Best regards
Ruth x

Summer rolls along

Wow August has really flown. We’ve had some gorgeous days and after my move in June it’s taken a while to work out a new routine, finding the best classes and clubs locally to fulfill my interests, working out what feels best and where I fit in, I am now extremely happy. After a month of hard work and planning I now have a couple of relaxing weekends to look forward to.

Most notably the Magic Orchard festival, which looks like it will be absolutely great. Local, small but big enough to have fun and eclectic too. I’m afraid that run of the mill and big festivals leave me uninspired and this one looks like it’s anything but boring.

I’ve also been privileged to have a few more bookings in the beautiful surroundings of the south lakes area, which has included a drive around the bay to Millom, Hest Bank, and also a room with a balcony over looking a river dramatically pouring out of a Lake the Lake District. I find the sound cascading rivers to be very powerful, and it was refreshing to have a cool glass of water out in the fresh evening air.

Do be warned that due to an allergy to midge bites, which is probably a side-effect of having a fair complexion, I am very careful about getting too close to water ways during summer evenings. If I spy any midges I will not venture outside without a thick layer of Avon skin so soft dry oil, which seems to be the only remedy I’ve ever tested that keeps the midges away.

Now that academic pressures have finally lifted, I am able to read whatever I wish and I’ve started on Leonard Cohen:A remarkable life. So far I’m finding it really enjoyable, and because I do have most of his albums can listen to songs as they are mentioned in the book. The first 32 years of his life are covered in just 2 chapters, during which he managed to travel and get up to quite a few things. I’m guessing the next 50 years must be really packed with action.

When my plans for September become clearer I am hoping to book another incall day, this time possibly in Barrow-In-Furness. I may also do a day later in the year in Carlisle, and Lancaster again sometime in winter.

For now it’s time for bed, I’ve had my Valerian tea and it’s time to brush my teeth.

Goodnight and sweet kissesm
Ruth x

Keep cool

Hi everyone

Just back from a spot of lunch and a couple of coffees outside a lakeland pub.

Since my move I have been finding my lifestyle takes me outside a lot more, and I am really reaping the benefits and enjoying life just as it is. During the hot weather I’ve been able to relax in shorts and a t-shirt most of the time, and have a very pretty view from my window.

I’m still receiving quite a few enquiries for incalls which isn’t too surprising since I did offer this type of booking for quite a long time, however I have pasted the changes all over many websites.

The new arrangements are suiting me really well, so I’ve no plans to change. I do however have an opportunity to accept a few incalls in the North Lancashire area during the first weekend in August. Times will be quite limited, and my rates slightly different. I will also require a deposit from anyone who is a new client, or has proved to be unreliable in the past. If however you’d like to grab a bit of my time, please do get in touch and I will see what I can do. If you can’t usually book an outcall, this is a great opportunity to get to see me.

I have been receiving a lot of text enquiries recently, whilst I do have a feeling this is something to do with a particular website I renewed an advert with recently, I’d like to explain here that whilst I’m ok with exchanging a couple of text messages to confirm I am available/not available, after that I really do need to speak to you. I find text messaging with clients I have not yet met to be impersonal and awkward, there’s plenty of information on this website, and I’m not interested in exchanging ten or twenty text messages with several people at their convenience. I also may be busy or driving, and a quick phone call can usually replace 20 minutes of back and forth messaging. Please phone or email and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible. If you are in an area of poor signal, please feel free to email or provide me with a landline number.

Luckily many clients are great with communications – or should I say I tend to find good communication leads to a successful meeting.

Best and warmest regards for now,

Ruth x

A fresh outlook


I’ve landed, and what a fortnight it’s been. At one point I thought I’d never get moved, that is a huge lesson to me in keeping things I really do not need.

Now installed in new base, and have located at least enough lingerie, stockings and shoes to get me going on the outcall front.

Yes just to confirm I am no longer in Kendal and I am no longer offering incalls. Instead I am now based in the Ulverston to Barrow-in-Furness area, available to visit you in your home or hotel.I’ve had a few calls over the last week or so asking when I will be offering incalls again. So just to clarify at the moment there are zero plans for incalls. I simply wish to be more ‘part-time’ and I need to give more time to me and other pursuits I am involved in. I am sorry to those clients who cannot accommodate outcalls, but this is truly the way I wish to be.

I already have a couple of outcall visits lined up and very excited to be offering my usual GFE, in a slightly different area, and on an ‘I come to you’ basis.

One other recent change has been the introduction of deposits for new clients, or those I’ve not seen for a long time. It’s become clear recently that I only wish to see clients who are able to make a definite commitment. I can accept a deposit by online voucher, bank transfer or cash at bank. If you have seen me many times previously, and use a former method of communication to identify yourself then I will not require this. Once again I am sorry if this doesn’t suit everyone, but it works beautifully for my situation.

I also require proof of residency or hotel booking details as part of making your outcall booking.

Once the boring business bit is out of the way, all of that is forgotten as I bring the genuine GFE for which I am so well known.

The fun starts very soon, and I look forward to being an outcall only Escort in the south lakes and north Lancashire area.

Warm wishes
Ruth x

On the subject of elections

Wow, what a change. The elections didn’t go the way I wished for, but as ever I had shown my party colours, and of course voted on the day. All very important to me.

I did notice a lull in interest in bookings for polling day, so on Thursday afternoon decided to use the time wisely. I took myself off to a coffee shop with my Kindle, a few text books and a highlighter pen to get on with some course-reading over a thick, black coffee.

The following day provided the shock announcement that the SNP had more or less wiped out Scotland, and the Lib Dems also saw a huge backlash. The next five years is surely going to be very interesting.

I did see a surge in new client enquiries on results day, however I already had my hands full, fully booked with a couple of regular clients.

That evening I sat down to listen to what must be one of the best episodes of Dead Ringers, an absolute classic. I had to listen to it twice again before the novelty wore off.

I also wanted to give Ed Miliband a cuddle.

At the end of the 48 hours that is polling and results day, I curled up with more academic reading before falling asleep mind and body exhausted.

Ruth x

Just to confirm changes

Right guys, here it is;

The 29th of May will be my last day of incalls in Kendal. After this date I will still be available for outcall only bookings, but this is be the end of permanent incalls for the foreseeable future. During June I will be moving to a slightly different town. Once moved I may plan the very occasional incall day on a monthly basis, but at the moment do not have any dates nor do I have a location for those incalls. When I do priority will be given to regular clients, and any remaining spaces then posted on this website.

If you wish to see me outcall I am happy to visit homes and hotels in the south lakes area, which also includes the west coast of Cumbria subject to the usual minimum booking requirements which can be found on my rates page. Once I have moved some of those minimum booking requirements may change. For example from mid-June outcalls to Barrow-in-Furness will only require a one hour booking, but outcalls to Lancaster will be subject to a minimum 2 hour appointment, outcalls to Manchester will require a railfare paid in advance. Alternatively you are always welcome to book a hotel closer to me and I can advise on several suitable hotels in the area.

In the run up to the end of what has been over 8 years in my current location, I am aware that I want to give current and regular clients the best chance of seeing me before I leave. For this reason I am only accepting appointments from new clients who are able and prepared to pay a deposit in order to secure their booking. I am aware this will not appeal to some potential clients, and I am sorry if this means you cannot see me.

I now have quite a bit of sorting out and closing down to do in various areas of my life, which includes finishing a hefty portion of coursework, working out how to transplant my sporting activities, and because I am effectively downsizing in one respect, I am having a grand clear out. I am really looking forward to having less possessions and less junk and trinkets. I’ve thrown out 2 big black bags and two boxes of paper this last week, but so far my spare room only seems to appear untidy. It feels like I am chipping away, but the iceberg is not reducing. I’m not sure when I’ll notice a difference, it just looks messier than ever!

The forth coming changes have me both sad and excited at the same time, and it’s times like these that I really appreciate the support I receive from those who know me well.

Kind regards
Ruth x

Busy, busy, busy

Yes that is me right now, busy in all areas of my life!

I’ve just added a statement to the home page which declares that I am not accepting any new clients at the moment.

I remember the last time I made such an announcement I received several calls wondering if perhaps I’d had a ‘bad experience’.

Nope, that isn’t the case at all. I simply have a lot going on in external to my Escorting life, which also includes a few changes afoot. The first thing is that my study load is fairly hefty at the moment and I need to concentrate hard for the next 2 weeks. There’s also a chance that I will be ceasing incalls very soon. I have many regular clients whom I’ve been seeing for quite some time now, and it makes more sense to me to concentrate on them in the time I do have available. We’ve met several times, we know each other’s nuances, and they also are comfortable knowing where to meet.

This doesn’t however mean goodbye for ever, or that I am disappearing. What it means is that I should be still continue to be available for outcalls for the foreseeable future, and also start seeing new clients again when I do have more time – which is looking like the end of May or beginning of June. My outcall minimum booking requirements for certain locations may also be jigged around a bit as a slight geographical change looks highly likely.

So if you are new to me please do look around, do take in the information and if you are interested in a booking do check back for more updates in future.

Kind regards
Ruth x