May I tempt you?

Someone has had fun creating a little pop music video for me, I think you’ll enjoy it as much as I have so I’ll just pop it here! Remember I’m available for outcalls across the south lakes, Cumbria and northwest area most days of the week.

Incalls

This is the third blog in 2 weeks, so it must be something I feel passionate about.

It is about discretion and incalls. Unfortunately I’m finding that although most people are fine, a few aren’t always aware what discretion means. This year I started offering a couple of incall appointments each week, on the basis that it would be kept very discrete and low key. I enjoy being able to provide this and I know quite a few of you really appreciate it.

In order for me to continue feeling comfortable about this I do have to make a few requests. Whilst I am always overwhelmed when someone brings me a gift, if you bring one please don’t rush up to the door waving it about. Please pop it into a non-descript bag or your pocket. Also when leaving it’s really appreciated if you don’t stand outside telling me and any passers by or neighbours, what a nice time you’ve had and that you’ll be back in touch to rebook in a month or two.

If you have done this please don’t feel bad and don’t hesitate to rebook, I know the intention was to be polite I only wish to prevent any future compromises which could spoil our fun.

As I say I would like to continue to offer incall opportunities, so am asking for a bit of understanding and cooperation.

Warm regards
Ruth x

The real blog!

A few days ago I wrote a blog entry, which I realise was a bit disjointed and not a reflection of what has been going on at all. Thinking about it overnight I’ve decided I need to come back and write about what’s important to me.

During the last month or so I’ve been out galavanting at 2 rock nights and the Hacienda Classical when they performed at The Lytham Festival. The rock nights are held once a month in a smallish city not too far away consisting of a DJ playing rock and heavy metal tracks right through from the 1970s until now. Hacienda Classical is a live performance by an orchestra + original DJs from the famous Hacienda night club of the 1990s. My musical tastes vary widely, and I really like to dance but I’ll never be a boyband/x-factor/pop idol or whatever it is now type.

I’ve also been mulling over where I am right now. As some of you know a couple of years ago there was a major change in my life, which lead me to change some of how I operate as an Escort. At the time I was finishing my professional training in a different field and I thought that I’d naturally start to wind down to move into that occupation. Also after my initial move the changes did create a lull in my bookings. Since then however a new motivation has emerged, and I’ve found that I’ve become restablished again. Reflecting on this recently I’ve realised that I don’t want to quit, I have some fabulous clients, and some fabulous bookings. I find being an Escort really exciting, and to be completely honest gives me a good income and flexibility which I can use in my other interests. As far as I’m concerned I’m carrying on and have reduced activities in at least one other area of my life. I am very happy where I am, and look forward to this continuing until I do reach a natural end point.

So there I am, my thoughts and experiences for the last month or so, and I feel as if I’m right back where I belong.

Best regards as ever,

Ruth x

Late summer turning

We are at the time of year when summer is turning to autumn, this is a period I enjoy seeing the leaves changing colour often accompanied by a last warm spell before the sharp mornings of September and October.

There are also changes afoot in various parts of my life. The first is that I’ve decided to change the style of photos which I use. For the last few years I have gained a lot of confidence from high end, style boudoir photography shoots. This experience has helped me develop my own personal style, learning the sort of clothes, lingerie, make-up and jewelry which bring out the best in me. I had however started to feel that the photography style was creating too much of a fantasy image. In the last year I have been experimenting with fresher, more natural style of photography which I feel makes the most use of my personality, style and approach to bookings. I bring the excitement and fantasy of a liaison with a beautiful woman, along with a genuiness and honesty which provides an insight into my personality. Some of the new photos can be found towards the bottom of the ‘Photos’ page of this website, as well as a few on my adultwork.com profile https://www.adultwork.com/240357 , and I will continue to add more whenever I can.

On the topic of passion I am currently in a very tough period of training, which requires adherence to a very strict, very plain diet. Recently someone made contact with the really generous offer of enjoying a meal as part of our booking. I understand that offering to spend part of a booking eating delicious meal is a really kind, thoughtful gesture however right now it would only be akin to absolute torture which I’m certain is not the intention. I also need to explain that the often well meaning gifts of chocolate, cheese, sugary or juice drinks (even health brands), are not the treat they may be ordinarily thought of. Redbush tea, ground coffee, sparkling water, scented candles are however current guilt-free treats which are guaranteed to put a smile on my face.

Meals and gift offers are however not an expectation, nor do they dictate how I will feel about a client. I equally as happy (infact right now more than happy) to accept a good-old-plain and simple, turn up, have a good time, thank you very much booking. It’s always a pleasure to be contacted by someone who has read the information on my website, is straightforward and easy to communicate with. One of the things I really like about being an Escort is being able to provide pleasure on a no-strings, relaxed no pressure, no-expectation basis which makes it one of the things I’m very passionate about.

Warm regards
Ruth x

An evening out

Hi everyone

This week I’ve been really busy working on a few projects, one of which has been making a little video. Flat photos can struggle to communicate character and movement. If you are new to me I’m hoping this video will help bring me to life, if you are not so new to me then it may spark off some very pleasant memories. You’ll also find a link to the video at the top of my photos page.

Warm regards
Ruth x

Spring forward

Tonight the clocks move forward one hour as we leap into spring, and I’m really going to enjoy the days getting longer and evenings lighter.

A few of you may be aware that I can now arrange a couple of incall bookings each week at a fabulously furnished hideaway. I’m still outcall focused, and still only available to accept 1 booking per day. There are some strict rules surrounding incalls, and I won’t be routinely giving out my location or address. Unless I advise you otherwise rates and deposit requirements are exactly the same as for outcalls. If you have seen me before you must supply me with the email, or phone number used to make your previous booking. If you are new to me I will need you to pay for your booking in advance, and follow my strict instructions. Discretion, reliability, privacy and safety are my priority. Outside of the 2 incalls bookings per week, I will be available only for outcalls, outcall bookings are still my focus.

In the last few months I’ve been tightening up my diet, and loosening up my muscles. Several years of training had left my body a patchwork of tight muscles with various injuries niggling away. Enough was enough and I decided to engage in some techniques reputed to help relax the muscles, as well as generally improve my performance. Although wary at first I am now reaping the rewards, and can feel the benefits in everything I do. I’m hoping this will stand me in good stead as I move into another very intense phase of my training, not that it’s ever ‘not’ serious. I’ve also recently discovered the benefits of real chinese tea which is very different to that found in standard tea bags, even Clipper green tea. I’m now really enjoying my morning cup of steeped green tea, followed by Oolong later in the day. I’m feeling refreshed and ready for spring, bring on the clock changing!

Best regards

Ruth

A period of calm, after the storm

The last few weeks have been fairly packed with activities. and responsibilities in all areas of my life. I’m now in a slightly clearer spell and have a few exciting projects finally coming together.

One of these is the tightening of my diet again as I prepare to drive myself into the ground for my sport. This means that I may not always want to accept bookings involving a meal, or may check that the restaurant(or you) can adjust to my diet. Last night I had an interesting conversation in an eatery claiming to be able to adjust to most dietary requirements, who weren’t able to make either plain boiled or jacket potato instead of chips or dauphinoise potatoes. I understand these things take preparation but……

Another bit of news is that from 8th March 2017, I will be able to arrange a couple of incall bookings per week. These will be in a lovely luxuriously furnished property for previous regular clients I am comfortable with, and new clients who are able to pay for their booking in advance by my usual deposit methods. To reflect the limited spaces for incall, unless I tell you otherwise my incall and outcall fees will be exactly the same. In other words I have one price list! Each week once I have the 2 incall bookings, the only way to see me will be outcall. I also will not be routinely giving out my address, and will only be seeing clients I can trust to be discrete and reliable. Privacy, discretion and safety are my priority.

The other thing I’d like to say is “Please stop asking outside of the information I write on here”. I pride myself on my integrity, and being as genuine as possible. If I say I’m not doing something until a certain date, or have certain procedures it’s really off putting when I’m asked to circumvent. I try my best at all times to provide as much information as possible.

So an exciting few months ahead!

2017 (b)

You may remember that at the end of last year I mentioned that I was putting things in place which would mean I could offer a couple of incalls each week. Well frustratingly enough getting this all set up has hit some serious delays, all things out of my control which involve companies either going bust or letting me down big style. Some of which I’ve paid upfront, so imagine my frustration!

At the moment I cannot provide a start date, which is something I’ve more or less said all along and I know some of you are champing at the bit. Trying for dates has only put pressure on, and I would not be comfortable seeing anyone in less than ideal circumstances. If you are interested, it would be better to assume that I’m outcall only for the foreseeable future. Once everything is in place, all set up I’ll then indicate this in another blog entry. As I say places will be limited, and discretion paramount with my emphasis still being on outcall bookings.

In the meantime I’ve had welcome distraction in the form of a couple of bookings in fabulous surroundings. One of the things I love about outcall is experiencing a wide range of venues, and very individual booking types. One day it’s a meet in a cosy two-up-two down, the next a room with a view over fabulous lake district fells.

So for now outcall is currently the way to be able to book me.

Best regards
Ruth

Update: from 8th of March I will be able to offer 2 incall appointments per week, these are limited to any client who has seen me on a regular basis previously, AND who provide their previous contact number/email address. New clients who are able to pay for their booking in advance by my usual deposit methods are also welcome. For privacy and discretion reasons I will not be advertising, or giving out my address.

Like buses, they all come at once

After almost a year without an overnight, suddenly 3 come along within 3 months. Each one has been quite different, and each one has been very much appreciated and enjoyed.

The first was a meal, concert and overnight stay in a city, morning back by train. Second was a snatched overnight locally, lift to and from. Third involved a very long drive across at least 5, if not 6 counties for cuddles on the sofa, a delicious home-cooked meal, late start in the morning with a long drive back through the counties again.

When I receive an enquiry for an overnight booking I do like to have a rough outline, then I can plan what I’m going to wear, my travel, and also fit in my other activities. I may also pop a few things into my bag to make our room cosy. With plenty of notice I can be fairly flexible, some locations may attract a slightly higher fee, some a lower fee dependent upon the timetable.

Historically I used to cut out overnights during heavy training periods, I’m not going to do that this year. Instead I’ll leave it open because I know that some overnights are quite possible at all times of year, it all depends on the exact details, so the more information you can provide on enquiry, the easier it is for me to give you an answer. Do be warned that fine wines, chocolate, meals out and breakfast aren’t part of my criteria whereas ease of travel, and the presence of a well-equipped gym is often much more persuasive.

Best regards
Ruth

Communication

Happy New Year all, I hope you had a great festive season. The New Year is often the time, when clients new to me decide to take the plunge and get in touch for the first time.

This week has highlighted a few issues with this, and so in an effort to iron out a few frustrations on both sides I thought I’d clear a few things up.

Firstly my phone does reject withheld numbers, if you phone and only ever get voicemail please do check that your number is not withheld. A very frustrated message was left on my voicemail this week, by a man who had phoned at the time when I said I’d be free to speak, yet his call didn’t ring out because his number was one which is withheld. This particular person did leave me a number on which to call him back, which is absolutely fine and something I will do if and only if explicitly requested. Unfortunately the number left didn’t work, I listed to it several times, yet each time I phoned I only got the dead tone of ‘number not operational’.

Talking of numbers not operating, my phone number does work, if however you send an text message and you are someone new to me (having not got to the making a definite booking stage) or using a new number my phone will issue an auto reply advising that this number doesn’t accept text messages. The number will however accept your phone call. The information on my Contact page does explain that new clients need to phone or email, I won’t engage in text messaging. Once we’ve gotten a definite booking, deposit paid, and we’ve had at least one phone call, I am happy to use text messaging for on the day confirmation and then to arrange future bookings.

Do remember that you can phone me at any time, if I do not wish to be disturbed, or it’s not convenient then my phone will be off, and my voicemail greeting advises a good time to call me back. I will not phone you back unless you specifically ask me to. Sometimes I’m asked “Can I call you?”, “When is a good time to call?”, it’s a bit like how long is a piece of string, if I say 2.30pm tomorrow something may change, or I could get a booking for that time. Please just phone when you are able, you cannot intrude and no time is too early – if I’m sleeping the phone is off, simple. If I pick up it’s because I want to pick up.

Ok so you may decide you prefer to email in the first instance, which is absolutely fine. A few have asked me a variety of questions, with the aim of ‘making things easy’ for me. The way to make things easy is to read and understand the information on this website, once again my Contact page explains the information I need you to provide when you get in touch. If you can do this that is the one thing which will make things easy for me.

Yay, I’m so glad we’ve gotten all that cleared up. My phone number and email address are displayed because I want accept your call or email.

All the best for the start of 2017
Ruth x