An evening out

Hi everyone

This week I’ve been really busy working on a few projects, one of which has been making a little video. Flat photos can struggle to communicate character and movement. If you are new to me I’m hoping this video will help bring me to life, if you are not so new to me then it may spark off some very pleasant memories. You’ll also find a link to the video at the top of my photos page.

Warm regards
Ruth x

Spring forward

Tonight the clocks move forward one hour as we leap into spring, and I’m really going to enjoy the days getting longer and evenings lighter.

A few of you may be aware that I can now arrange a couple of incall bookings each week at a fabulously furnished hideaway. I’m still outcall focused, and still only available to accept 1 booking per day. There are some strict rules surrounding incalls, and I won’t be routinely giving out my location or address. Unless I advise you otherwise rates and deposit requirements are exactly the same as for outcalls. If you have seen me before you must supply me with the email, or phone number used to make your previous booking. If you are new to me I will need you to pay for your booking in advance, and follow my strict instructions. Discretion, reliability, privacy and safety are my priority. Outside of the 2 incalls bookings per week, I will be available only for outcalls, outcall bookings are still my focus.

In the last few months I’ve been tightening up my diet, and loosening up my muscles. Several years of training had left my body a patchwork of tight muscles with various injuries niggling away. Enough was enough and I decided to engage in some techniques reputed to help relax the muscles, as well as generally improve my performance. Although wary at first I am now reaping the rewards, and can feel the benefits in everything I do. I’m hoping this will stand me in good stead as I move into another very intense phase of my training, not that it’s ever ‘not’ serious. I’ve also recently discovered the benefits of real chinese tea which is very different to that found in standard tea bags, even Clipper green tea. I’m now really enjoying my morning cup of steeped green tea, followed by Oolong later in the day. I’m feeling refreshed and ready for spring, bring on the clock changing!

Best regards

Ruth

A period of calm, after the storm

The last few weeks have been fairly packed with activities. and responsibilities in all areas of my life. I’m now in a slightly clearer spell and have a few exciting projects finally coming together.

One of these is the tightening of my diet again as I prepare to drive myself into the ground for my sport. This means that I may not always want to accept bookings involving a meal, or may check that the restaurant(or you) can adjust to my diet. Last night I had an interesting conversation in an eatery claiming to be able to adjust to most dietary requirements, who weren’t able to make either plain boiled or jacket potato instead of chips or dauphinoise potatoes. I understand these things take preparation but……

Another bit of news is that from 8th March 2017, I will be able to arrange a couple of incall bookings per week. These will be in a lovely luxuriously furnished property for previous regular clients I am comfortable with, and new clients who are able to pay for their booking in advance by my usual deposit methods. Each week once I have the 2 incall bookings, the only way to see me will be outcall. I also will not be routinely giving out my address, and will only be seeing clients I can trust to be discrete and reliable. Privacy, discretion and safety are my priority.

The other thing I’d like to say is “Please stop asking outside of the information I write on here”. I pride myself on my integrity, and being as genuine as possible. If I say I’m not doing something until a certain date, or have certain procedures it’s really off putting when I’m asked to circumvent. I try my best at all times to provide as much information as possible.

So an exciting few months ahead!

2017 (b)

You may remember that at the end of last year I mentioned that I was putting things in place which would mean I could offer a couple of incalls each week. Well frustratingly enough getting this all set up has hit some serious delays, all things out of my control which involve companies either going bust or letting me down big style. Some of which I’ve paid upfront, so imagine my frustration!

At the moment I cannot provide a start date, which is something I’ve more or less said all along and I know some of you are champing at the bit. Trying for dates has only put pressure on, and I would not be comfortable seeing anyone in less than ideal circumstances. If you are interested, it would be better to assume that I’m outcall only for the foreseeable future. Once everything is in place, all set up I’ll then indicate this in another blog entry. As I say places will be limited, and discretion paramount with my emphasis still being on outcall bookings.

In the meantime I’ve had welcome distraction in the form of a couple of bookings in fabulous surroundings. One of the things I love about outcall is experiencing a wide range of venues, and very individual booking types. One day it’s a meet in a cosy two-up-two down, the next a room with a view over fabulous lake district fells.

So for now outcall is currently the way to be able to book me.

Best regards
Ruth

Update: from 8th of March I will be able to offer 2 incall appointments per week, these are limited to any client who has seen me on a regular basis previously, AND who provide their previous contact number/email address. New clients who are able to pay for their booking in advance by my usual deposit methods are also welcome. For privacy and discretion reasons I will not be advertising, or giving out my address.

Like buses, they all come at once

After almost a year without an overnight, suddenly 3 come along within 3 months. Each one has been quite different, and each one has been very much appreciated and enjoyed.

The first was a meal, concert and overnight stay in a city, morning back by train. Second was a snatched overnight locally, lift to and from. Third involved a very long drive across at least 5, if not 6 counties for cuddles on the sofa, a delicious home-cooked meal, late start in the morning with a long drive back through the counties again.

When I receive an enquiry for an overnight booking I do like to have a rough outline, then I can plan what I’m going to wear, my travel, and also fit in my other activities. I may also pop a few things into my bag to make our room cosy. With plenty of notice I can be fairly flexible, some locations may attract a slightly higher fee, some a lower fee dependent upon the timetable.

Historically I used to cut out overnights during heavy training periods, I’m not going to do that this year. Instead I’ll leave it open because I know that some overnights are quite possible at all times of year, it all depends on the exact details, so the more information you can provide on enquiry, the easier it is for me to give you an answer. Do be warned that fine wines, chocolate, meals out and breakfast aren’t part of my criteria whereas ease of travel, and the presence of a well-equipped gym is often much more persuasive.

Best regards
Ruth

Communication

Happy New Year all, I hope you had a great festive season. The New Year is often the time, when clients new to me decide to take the plunge and get in touch for the first time.

This week has highlighted a few issues with this, and so in an effort to iron out a few frustrations on both sides I thought I’d clear a few things up.

Firstly my phone does reject withheld numbers, if you phone and only ever get voicemail please do check that your number is not withheld. A very frustrated message was left on my voicemail this week, by a man who had phoned at the time when I said I’d be free to speak, yet his call didn’t ring out because his number was one which is withheld. This particular person did leave me a number on which to call him back, which is absolutely fine and something I will do if and only if explicitly requested. Unfortunately the number left didn’t work, I listed to it several times, yet each time I phoned I only got the dead tone of ‘number not operational’.

Talking of numbers not operating, my phone number does work, if however you send an text message and you are someone new to me (having not got to the making a definite booking stage) or using a new number my phone will issue an auto reply advising that this number doesn’t accept text messages. The number will however accept your phone call. The information on my Contact page does explain that new clients need to phone or email, I won’t engage in text messaging. Once we’ve gotten a definite booking, deposit paid, and we’ve had at least one phone call, I am happy to use text messaging for on the day confirmation and then to arrange future bookings.

Do remember that you can phone me at any time, if I do not wish to be disturbed, or it’s not convenient then my phone will be off, and my voicemail greeting advises a good time to call me back. I will not phone you back unless you specifically ask me to. Sometimes I’m asked “Can I call you?”, “When is a good time to call?”, it’s a bit like how long is a piece of string, if I say 2.30pm tomorrow something may change, or I could get a booking for that time. Please just phone when you are able, you cannot intrude and no time is too early – if I’m sleeping the phone is off, simple. If I pick up it’s because I want to pick up.

Ok so you may decide you prefer to email in the first instance, which is absolutely fine. A few have asked me a variety of questions, with the aim of ‘making things easy’ for me. The way to make things easy is to read and understand the information on this website, once again my Contact page explains the information I need you to provide when you get in touch. If you can do this that is the one thing which will make things easy for me.

Yay, I’m so glad we’ve gotten all that cleared up. My phone number and email address are displayed because I want accept your call or email.

All the best for the start of 2017
Ruth x

They are here, very exciting

Just in the nick of time before Christmas my new photos have arrived, and they are the best yet. Prior to my shoot last week I was feeling a bit sorta “What are we going to do, everyone’s seen my photos, poses, lingerie. Why am I making the effort, time and paying a lot of money for this?”. I even thought of cancelling. I started flicking through the photographer’s galleries looking for ideas, started choosing lingerie I wanted to wear and suddenly discovered items I’d never thought of wearing.

After the long drive which is almost 2 hours, once I got there and started going through my lingerie, had my make-up done and started shooting I realised that at the moment I’m in tip top condition. I’m fit, you can see that, without being extreme. You can tell I train and look after myself, and that I love to wear fabulous lingerie. I had a great time and have been checking my inbox ever since. The photos arrived today and I am so, so glad I went to the time and expense to engage with the lady who really captures my personality and beauty so well.

I’ve popped a few into the gallery today so you can see them, and will add more over the few days. As you can see they really communicate everything I have about me as a person. As I’ve just said to someone in an electronic message I wanted the photos to show “more about me, than a list of services and a pussy”

Best wishes
Ruth

Scenic routes

I’m so excited, yesterday I headed to Ramsbottom for a boudoir photoshoot for my gallery. It was a long drive, 2 hours each way including having to use a scenic route on the way back in order to avoid serious traffic issues in the Preston/M65 area.

The shoot went really well, I’ve gotten shots in wearing lingerie that many of you won’t have seen before. They should be with me sometime next week, and I cannot wait to post the photos on here.

As some of you will be aware the New Year brings the opportunity for me to offer a few, very limited incall appointments each week. These will be restricted, subject to strict requirements which will not be able to be circumvented. I expect to start sometime in February, please do bear with whilst I do my best to make sure everything is just right before I can set a definite date. One or two have asked if I can start sooner, the answer is not unless you are a magician. There may be another hotel incall date before then, so do watch my blog and availability page if this is your preferred style of appointment.

It’s looking like the end of 2016 and the start of 2017 is going to be very exciting!

Best regards
Ruth x

Whiter than White

How do you clean yours?

Wow, I can’t stop looking in the mirror at my teeth. After getting fed up of seeing ever growing coffee stains building up, I decided to investigate some tooth whitening at a local dentist.

The thing that has made the biggest difference however, is not the actual whitening procedure – it was having a simple scale and polish, and learning how to clean my teeth properly.

For years I thought that 2 minutes, twice a day was perfectly adequate. Whenever I went for a check up the dentist did wave these interdental brushes at me, and mentioned some plaque build up but nothing much was done about it. I’d gotten through childhood without any fillings, and thought the few I’ve had since then were purely a life thing.

When I approached a different dentist for whitening, I was told I had quite a bit of build up at the back of my teeth, and prescribed a full scale and polish before going further. The scale and polish made an immediate, noticeable difference. So much so I have found myself stopping to look at the results. This has motivated me to clean all sides of my teeth, and use interdental brushes – I want to maintain this new cleaner state.

The cosmetic whitening process has now started, which consists of wearing some mouth trays containing peroxide gel for 2 hours each night. This should be finished by the end of this week, and already I’m so, so pleased with the results. I can’t stop smiling!

Ruth x

2017

Many of you have missed seeing me incall, and I’m pleased to announce that it looks like I will have opportunity to start offering them again during 2017.

Safety, discretion and privacy are my priority. I will only be able to offer a maximum of 2 incall appointments per week, no exceptions. For that reason places will be limited to regular clients I have seen in the last few years, and who use their previous contact methods (phone number or email address) with me, or new clients prepared to pay their first hour in advance as a deposit. To avoid address mix ups, and to maintain privacy I will meet you in a public place before showing you to my door.

If you are unable to agree to any of the above, I will only be able to visit you outcall.

Looking forward to this next exciting development.