Your first conversation with Ruth

I am always surprised and flattered when I hear someone has enjoyed my blog, finding it very entertaining as well as informative – which is really encouraging thank you for that. I find it useful reflection crystallising out my thoughts and feelings, often clarifying my strengths and revealing areas for focus. I am open to suggestion for topics if there’s anything you would like me to write about.

As a new client making your first booking may be quite daunting, I understand it is something you have never done before so aim to provide as much support as possible to guide you on your way. My adverts and this website are designed to provide the information you need to decide whether I’m the Escort for you, answer a few questions as well as explain how to make a booking. When you make contact with me I always take time to explain everything required, however I am finding myself coming away from some conversations feeling as if this willingness and understanding is being taken advantage of. For example a few people are making bookings without having a venue, time or duration, others fully aware a deposit is required providing details then saying they can pay the deposit next week.

The main frustration come from knowing that some of these enquiries do turn out to be really nice bookings, also much of my enjoyment comes from seeing a variety of clients. However I do need you to help me in this process, and believe it or not even with years of Escorting under my belt, I still get apprehensive before a booking – it’s all part of the excitement which keeps me continuing even when I’ve had opportunity to move on.

The importance of life – “Keep me as me”

Recent health test results have shown me that I really need to put some weight on, despite fitness being promoted in the media there are some downsides and risks associated with being very lean. In order to lessen the risks and enjoy a good quality of life I need to go against the belief that slimmer is better, and lower some of the stresses on my body. I am still following a training and diet regime with the same commitment, but I will be adding a few slight curves to my figure and ‘softening’ out a little bit. Who knows I might start to feel the cold a little less!

As you may notice I’m adding photos every so often, during my summer I’ve had a couple of photoshoots and have a great selection to show off in the coming months. Sometimes people ask are the photos mine, are they recent – the answer is I go to a lot of effort and expense to get the lovely photos, some are not recent however all are representative of me my style, my character and my body. Some years ago I did used to change a lot, in body size and shape as I struggled with a few personal issues. These days I stay mostly around the same shape, sometimes a bit leaner, sometimes not – but it’s no longer an extreme shift. Yes the photos are taken to create your fantasy some are more glamorous than others, however I ask all my photographers to do the minimal work. The brief I provide is “Keep me as close to me as possible” so you can expect to meet the woman in the pictures.

English summer days

Summer is more or less here which means the shorts have come out, on the way to Liverpool last week I suddenly had a flash of inspiration and decided to use a pair of denim hotpant style shorts in my photoshoot. Remembering a childhood favourite programme suddenly Daisy Duke became the theme so watch out for a video and some photos in the next few weeks or so.

My Liverpool trip was extremely enjoyable I combined personal life, study, some quick sightseeing, a few Escort bookings, my usual training regime and of course the photoshoot. Everyone I met was so friendly which will encourage me to revisit, just exactly when I am not sure. My next trip is to the outskirts of Manchester for which just like Liverpool I am able to offer a few Escort bookings during my stay, these trips may bring me closer to you for outcall or allow you to visit me incall. Either way I do not mind just get in touch with your requirements, and I will let you know what is possible. I do require a deposit for all bookings on these trips, options are into my bank account or by Amazon gift card – all details provided by request. Also if you are new to me I will at some point require a phone call, just to hear your voice before we confirm on the day.

Later this year I am aiming to be available in North London towards the end of November/beginning of December, this trip is still in the planning phase however if you are interested please once again don’t hesitate to get in touch.

I mentioned my training regime in my Liverpool trip although I am always training partly because I enjoy it so much, partly because I need to keep my figure trim I now have the ability to have the occasional meal out – which means dinner dates and overnights involving some meals are now available. This started with a client taking the opportunity to cook for me last week which after many years of regular bookings was something he had wanted to do for a while, and just added that little bit of something different to our meeting. I had to smile when at the end of the evening I was given a punnet of strawberries to enjoy when I got home.

Strawberries for Strawberry.

My new video Daisy Dukes has been added to the video page, it was great fun to make and see the finished sequence – I hope you enjoy it just as much as I did making it for you.

Return to Land of Hope & Glory

The wanderer returns after my brief trip and break away, for my own privacy I don’t want to give too much detail apart from the say the trip was very successful in many ways. Not least providing both excitement, triumph as well as important relaxation time. I have come back feeling distinctly changed and ready to turn my focus onto some important parts of my life – including my Escort bookings. One change is that I am now able to start accept bookings which include (only if you request it) meals, my dietary commitments have meant that over the last 3 – 4 years and even further back than this I’ve had to turn down a lot of dinner date or overnight-with-meals requests. I still have similar goals and commitments I won’t be dining out every day or even several times a week, but I can now be a little more relaxed in that department.

My usual range of bookings from straight 1 hour through 90 minutes, 2 and 3 hour bookings are still just the same as usual.

I also arrived home to find my most recent order of Pleasure State lingerie waiting for me, a peek into the box today reveals knicker and bra sets far exceeding my expectations. Absolutely beautiful delicate cream and black lace, finished with black satin trims. One bra is soft cup, the other padded plunge who will see them first? I also think they are going to feature in my forth coming photoshoots of which I have one with each of 2 styles of photographers – Phil the freshman, and the lady who makes me look so glamorous fine-art boudoir style. Hope you enjoy the lingerie and photographs.

Warmest wishes
Ruth x

Disability

Disability comes in many shapes and forms, some are highly visible, some are not. When arranging and accepting Escort bookings several situations may arise, some clients chose not to tell me and why should they if they do not consider it a problem. Others wish to tentatively test the waters, a carer may make initial contact, accessibility, any special considerations may need to be checked out first of all.

The TLC Trust website specialises in matching disabled sexual service seekers with responsible sexual service providers, as a TLC profile holder I receive a number of enquiries from disabled, their carers and families. Often they are simply looking for an intimate experience, so they too can enjoy the experiences many others may take for granted. They also are seeking discretion, understanding and to be treated like anyone else.

Some difficulties may arise if say specialised lifting equipment, or access to older unadapted properties is required. In these instances it is often easier to arrange to meet at the client’s home, that of a close friend or consenting relative, or one of the many hotels which these days are designed to cater to as many customer needs as possible.

Making contact for anyone who’s senses are impaired can present issues, and or involving a third party such as a carer or relative. Sexual needs for family members and relatives, can be a difficult if not embarassing subject. Many of us do not like to think of our brother, sister, son, daughter in a sexual situation. Even simple things such as how to clean up aferwards can be a source of discomfort.

In accepting a booking on behalf of, or with a disabled person I prefer to stick as closely to my usual booking procedure as possible -whilst allowing for adaptations along the way. I need to have the consent of everyone involved in the booking, wherever possible I like to establish contact as directly as possible, preferably speaking to the person I will be interacting with. Once we have established contact and a communication method, I am open to receiving as much or as little information as is comfortable to provide.

At first I did not see myself as a speciality disability Escort, however much of this is due to my approach I just did not see many disabilities as disabilities. As time has gone on I appreciate a wide range of clients, and have found my experience widening further. Thanks to the TLC I receive enquiries from right across the Northwest of England and even further, where possible I will try to work something out either in conjunction with my own travels or specifically for each individual. As you will see from my guest book someone has felt able to be open about their experience as a disabled client, and I can reassure you there are others in there who haven’t felt the need to declare themselves. All I know is each and very person I see is just amazing.

Ruth

Screen Bleed

Due to a problem with my android phone repair is on it’s way, I will not be able to access most websites including forums & directories when not at my PC.

Answering direct emails may also become an issue.

Phone or if a regular/repeat client succinct text is the way to get in touch…………repair arranged for early next week.

Each day I will be at my PC first thing each morning (apart from Saturday tomorrow) and last thing at night (apart from Friday tonight).

As ever please see my website for more information, and of course my Adultwork profile;

www.sweetstrawberryruth.com

Strawberryblonde on AW

07849 574668

Thank you Londinium

Just back from a really successful trip to London, so successful I am definitely encouraged to return again. The trip down went smoothly, thank you Northern Rail for redeeming yourself. I managed to negotiate the Tube with more luggage than myself, thank you to the kind gentleman who helped me on and off the train. I fitted in my training a bit of sightseeing in the local area, kept my diet monitored thank you Sainsbury’s and M&S Food. Got to my event on time and enjoyed a great reception from the bookings I had accepted. On the last day I fitted in a final training session, bought a card from a little shop on the way to the gym and enjoyed making it home earlier than expected despite the threat of storm Freya I did have a few issues with the shower in my room, which I quickly rectified but otherwise all went incredibly well.

Prior to my trips away I had a very busy February, including another couple of photo shoots which I’ll feed into my galleries over the coming months ahead.

The strictest period of the year for one of my hobbies starts very soon, so barring accidents I don’t have any trips away planned for the spring. I will however be in the Manchester area for one day at the end of March, this enables me to offer bookings around Manchester at my usual rates, rather than the extra fee I usually have to add on for travel time. Get in touch if you’d like to know more.

Today is a rainy day so I’ve some admin planned, then possibly a trip out to see someone special.

That’s all for now

Ruth

Birthday Month

Christmas seems to have run right into January for me, this year the festive season set of a feeling of renewal and excitement. I decided that Christmas would not end with New Year, it would continue to my birthday and beyond. As a birthday treat I booked myself into the iconic hotel I had wanted to look around for many years, the hotel did not disappoint. On hearing about my forthcoming stay a client loaned me a book about the hotel, I really enjoyed wandering around looking for the features not all of which were included in the guide. A good night’s sleep and wonderful atmosphere to great me in the morning made it an incredibly refreshing stay.

Last week I popped down to Manchester firstly to connect with a couple of new clients, which I managed to co-ordinate with a photoshoot with one of the two photographers I like to use. Now many people think I’m naturally photogenic, however I’m absolutely useless photographing myself. I’ve tried everything even bought lights, roped in family and friends and also a few clients have had a go. Nope it doesn’t work. I also really like just having a good session of lingerie, different clothing changes rather than trying to grab something at home when I have time. I also like the photographers input, it encourages me to be creative and away from home I feel a lot freer (for example I’m not trying to keep personal items out of the shot, that also includes boring things like trailing wires, electrical sockets, strange light pulls, all sorts of things). I got an action packed 3 hours, yet still couldn’t fit everything in which leaves more for next time. Another video is also in the making I’m so glad I’m not an actress, I’m told film directors can demand up to 30 takes – 3 takes is more than enough for me. I was so wanting to finish the strawberries, and also my hip flexors were aching from preventing my legs skidding away on the window ledge. “Ooh the glamour” I say with a smile.

Afterwards I experienced the same 1 hour drive out of Manchester as I did at the same time of day last time, I could use the train however this visit involved an outcall which would have been difficult if not impossible without a car. Also back home is on a branch line serviced by Northern Rail who often cancel trains, or have regular strike action affecting the service. I will however be using the train on my forth coming visit to London in March, and am seriously considering not taking the car into Manchester for my next stay in 3 weeks time. Speaking of which if you’d like to arrange a booking for my next trip, you need to be letting me know now and getting your deposit paid. If I don’t have anything in place a few days before I will cancel my accommodation switching to a ‘non-working’ travel plan.

Ruth

Your Christmas Treat

Christmas started on my return from my trip to London this week, it actually started with my glimpse of Christmas lights from the black cab taking me to my hotel. My trip was an academic one not the ‘shopping and a show’ fantasy, it was also chance to check out the feasibility of offering a few bookings on a return trip at the beginning of March. I am pleased to say that yes I will definitely be able to accept a few bookings and some of those have now been agreed.

During my trip I had a very rare meal out which although got off to a rocky start regards poor service, culminated in great happiness when my much deliberated over main course turned out to be a show stealer. Gasps were heard when the giant gamba prawns were brought to my place at the table. From that point The Mango Tree went up in my estimation, an absolute culinary delight I ate everything including the shell. Back to academia the following day then off back home with a bit of a minor detour to avoid the randomness which is Northern Rail and their weekend strikes. When it works I love public transport, when it’s difficult I find a way around it.

Back home I could start the Christmas music and hang the very few decorations I cam manage, I prefer an under-to-moderate Christmas and see it as a time to enjoy rather than feel pressured into some sort of competition.

I will be available for outcalls most days over the Festive period and can be as flexible as you like, apart from 1pm-6pm Christmas day when I’m completely unavailable including phone black out! It may also be worth knowing that the few incalls I accept will not be possible 23rd-28th December, only outcalls during that 5 day period.

Aside from that you’ll have noticed I’ve had some new photos taken which were an absolute success, I always find taking my own snaps very difficult so really do need a professional shoot every once in a while. I plan to visit at least one if not both same photographers in the first few months of 2019. I’ve also reinstated an advert on X-North.co.uk where I have also been included in annual advent calendar, just click on the doors to find me.

In the meantime I like to be able to offer you a small Christmas treat, which might be in the form of a chocolate truffle, clementine or a new piece of lingerie.

Have a great festive season, I hope to see you soon.

Best wishes
Ruth x

Discretionary discretion

I made a post about this last year, and I’m sorry to have to do so again. I am often asked about discretion and what do I do if I see someone in the street? The answer is that everything which happens within a booking stays confidential, unless you cause me harm or distress which would lead me to seek advice or report to the police. Extreme situations aside if I were to bump into you outside of a booking, I’m most likely to be in my own little World and possibly not even notice, if on the very small chance I did recognise you then I carry on and take my cue from you which may be a smile, nod, wink “Hi” or nothing at all. I carry confidences from several areas of my life, so this is not unusual for me.

Unfortunately this can be quite difficult for other people there have been a couple of instances where someone who had previously told me about the importance of discretion, has on spotting me outside has been extremely indiscreet in one instance shouting at me in a public place another approaching me whilst out with someone close. I also have a great tale from many years ago about a dinner date in a quiet restaurant, during which the person who’d booked me waxed lyrical about his requirement for absolute discretion followed by talking loudly about my website and how he came to choose me. At no time did he consider that person sat quietly at the other table………..or the staff serving us…………

Many clients are afraid other people will guess, you can be assured I will always behave in a carefully considered, professional manner. Also I will do my best to avoid encountering anyone who I feel doesn’t have the same sense of discretion, or who is unable to respect basic boundaries of privacy.