Posted: 19-03-2024

A little experience comfort

Part of me is champing at the bit to tell you about the last few weeks, February into March has been a very exciting time indeed. I am however aware in my last blog I started talking about experience and things that can help make the booking go ahead smoothly, so I shall write a little about comfort.

Comfort is I find interesting, I am not infrequently asked by clients "What can I do to make you feel comfortable, relaxed, make the time nice for you?", I am also aware making a good impression is likely the intention for asking what I would like to drink, chocolates and nibbles offered, toys suggested. In truth it's the real basics that lead to me feeling comfortable, I have learned to ask for these things because they are easily for many valid reasons missed in the heat of the moment. When a booking has been secured one of the first questions I ask is about parking and how to identify property number or name, I want to be sure I am at the right door and park in an appropriate place. The next thing I mention is many people do not realise that as a woman I feel a temperature up to 4 degrees lower compared to that experienced by a man, also as an individual I know I am particularly sensitive to the cold - always have been always will. Of course most of us have been brought up to wrap up, turn the heating down, conserve energy if only to keep the bills down. This generally isn't however compatible with lounging around in lingerie or fully naked, when comfortably warm I feel relaxed and very happy to strip off my clothing to get intimate. The next thing is towel and soap in the bathroom, I like to be able to wash my hands and freshen up as and when required. Quite a few people are very tidy, clean towels folded away, used towels placed in the laundry. I will not intrude into cupboards or drawers so have learned mention this when setting up the booking.

As you may hear my comfort is more about being warm and clean than drinks, chocolates, gifts & although if you like the visual aspect of me using toys, if I am with a person who is willing to follow a little guidance I gain far more enjoyment from real live you. This does not mean I do not appreciated the little touches, a scented candle, little music in a warm room is truly delightful but as long as the basics are in place I am already very happy.


Posted: 03-03-2024

A little Experience

In the last few years I started to realise how much experience I have built up over 15 plus years as an Escort, I have also adopted this into my language when taking new enquiries in the form of the phrase "Everything I do is based on experience". According to Oxford Languages 'experience' can be defined as "practical contact with and observation of facts or events", this is very true for myself. I have learned being very clear, running through and confirming everything avoids misunderstandings that could make it difficult to relax or create an awkward atmosphere. 

Quite a few people tell me they really like knowing where they stand, finding my approach reassuring. When setting up the booking with explicit permission I almost always send an SMS text or email acknowledging receipt of deposit, balance to pay cash on arrival as well as the agreed time, date, location, duration I also double check I have all the details absolutely correct myself, as well as covering some does and don'ts. I also include confirmation details, why confirmation? This is a check on the day that both parties are ok, it is also essential because unfortunately enough people even after paying a significant deposit forget their appointment, or do not tell me they cannot make it. A couple of people have also experienced sudden death or serious accident. In an activity in which discretion & privacy is important by having an agreed usually very early contact point we both know everything is going to plan.

There are lots of other things I ask or do to make sure the booking goes ahead smoothly, as well as look after both of us perhaps I shall write more in my next blog.